We’re all guilty of taking our significant other for granted sometimes. This Thanksgiving season is the perfect time to make sure you let them know just how much you appreciate them.
For the Girls:
1. Plan A Guys Night
Get the guys together for a game night or night out! It’s always good to let him blow off some steam with his closest friends. Tell him that you appreciate everything he does for you, and that you want him to make sure he’s spending some time with his friends solo. Take the chance to spend some time with yours, too!
2. Cook His Favorite Foods
Surprise him after work one day with a dinner of his favorite foods! You’ll get to spend some quality time together, and he’ll love that you took the time to make something special for him. Pinterest has lots of recipes if you need some help. You can also ask his family for ideas-- nothing beats a family recipe from his childhood!
3. Words of Affirmation
Even if it isn’t their top love language, everyone likes to hear how much you love them every now and again. Next time you two go out, make sure to tell him how handsome you think he looks. When he stays the night at your place, let him know how safe he makes you feel. Little things here and there make a huge difference. He’ll love hearing it, and you’ll love how he responds!
4. Spice It Up In The Bedroom
Never agree to something you aren’t comfortable with just to appease your partner, but keep an open mind to new ideas. You never know what might end up becoming your new favorite position, and he’ll appreciate you wanting to indulge in his fantasies. Be willing to laugh it out, and use the experience as an opportunity to grow closer to your significant other. Who knows, you might even end up loving his fantasy with a capital O.
For The Guys:
You aren’t off the hook with this one, guys. Just like you want to feel appreciated, so does your partner! A little extra effort goes a long way, and it can spark a renewed passion in all aspects of your relationship… including the bedroom.
1. Plan A Romantic Date Night
This is all about the thought that goes into it. Try recreating your first date, take her out somewhere nice, pick out an outfit that you both love and spend the night walking downtown… it’s easier than you think to plan something romantic. She’ll adore the thought you put into it, and you might even get a little extra thank you at the end of the night.
2. Get Her Something Special
Gifts are never a substitute for being present and attentive, but an occasional “just because” gift is a great way to remind her that you appreciate everything she does for you! Pick up her favorite flowers on the way home, order that outfit she’s been eyeing for the last couple of weeks, or pick her out a new comfortable lingerie set! Make sure it’s something that she’ll love and feel great in!
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3. Tell Her You Love Her
Just like you appreciate an ego boost every now and again, she wants to hear that you love her and care about her! No need to break out the Valentine's Day speech, but the next time you see her, tell her how nice she looks. Tell her about the first time you saw her, comment on how beautiful her eyes are, tell her you’re proud of everything she’s accomplished this year… just tell her that you love her.
We know it’s easy to assume that they know you care, and they probably do, but a reminder now and again never hurts. She’ll appreciate hearing the words, and you’ll reap the benefits of a happy significant other!
4. Ramp Up The Intimacy In The Bedroom
Bust out the candles one night. Go slow and pay extra attention to foreplay. Let her take control and do what makes her feel good. Taking a little extra time and paying attention to her wants and needs is so sexy. Intimacy in the bedroom goes away sometimes after you’ve been together for a while. So take the opportunity to bring it back every now and again! Trust us, you’ll both love the outcome.
It’s really the simple things that matter the most. During the holidays, it’s easy to get caught up in everything you have to do, all the shopping, family dinners… don’t forget to slow down and make time for your significant other. At the end of the day, that relationship is more important than any dinner party or shopping list. They’ll appreciate feeling like a priority, and you’ll get a break from the hustle and bustle of this crazy time of year.
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